If you’re like most of my readers (and listeners to the podcast) you have questions about sex.
How do I start the sex conversation with my son? My boyfriend tells me he loves me, so is it okay to have sex with him? I found my husband looking at porn, what do I do? How far is going to far? Don’t people need to know if they are sexually compatible before they get married? What is so sacred about sex anyway?
Maybe you’re a parent looking for information on how to talk to your child about sex. Maybe you’re a single person wondering how anybody could stay sexually pure in the culture we live in. Maybe your divorced but want to be re-married. If you’re married, maybe sex has caused great pain for many years or decades. Maybe you’re teenager and you’re hearing words and terms that you’re unfamiliar with.
Regardless of why you’re here, I’m proud of you. We all have questions about sex. The culture we live in is completely addicted to sex while the Church is terrified of it. So no matter where you are, let’s talk this thing out together, what do you say?
WHY LISTEN TO ME?
I’m a guy that did everything wrong when it came to sex growing up as a kid. As a young adult my life was simply out of control. Basically, long story short….I’m a former porn and sex addict. I was in bondage to pornography for over 20 years. This led to adultery and much more. To listen to part of my testimony, click here. I’m not proud of this. I’m ashamed of who I used to be. Now, by God’s amazing grace, I’m an ordained minister specializing in teaching families and training Churches God’s design for sex, marriage and the family. (Yes, God has a sense of humor!)
By God’s grace, I’m certified in Sexual Addiction and Addiction Recovery from the AACC. I’m also finishing up my Master of Theological Studies degree at Gateway Seminary with future plans of pursuing a Ph.D. in Theology with an emphasis in Biblical Sexual Ethics. I’m also a member of the American Association of Christian Counselors and the Southern Baptist Convention. Lastly, my first book will prayerfully be released this fall from Ambassador International Publishers. The book is titled, The Sex Spiral: Forgiven and Free From Pornography.
MY GOAL IN WRITING
My mission is to educate you, your Church and your family on healthy sexuality. I would like to save you a lot of heartache and pain by learning from my mistakes. I have lots of stories that I’ll share with you as a former porn and sex addict. More importantly, I’ll share stories of God’s truth and redeeming grace from His Word.
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